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this quiz to see if the man you are with is a narcissist:
1. Does he act out in verbally
aggressive behaviors, or does he have 'rages', especially if he feels he
has been insulted in some way? Does he blame 'you' or accuse you of being
the one that is 'acting out' or 'out-of-control'?
2. In the beginning was he just
'too good to be true'?
3. Does he rely on you financially,
or does he ask you to help him fund things?
4. Does he often spend outside
of his budget?
5. Is
everything always about him and is nothing ever about you? Does he seem
insensitive to your needs, unappreciative of your input, or non-acknowledging
of your accomplishments? Does he not recognize your giving, kindness, and
thoughtfulness?
Does
he seem genuinely not interested in your life?
6. Is he controlling? Do you
often feel manipulated?
7. Does he show one side (Dr.
Jekyll) to the public (a perfected persona which you know is fake), and another
side (Mr. Hyde) to you in private? Does he go out
of his way to impress people?
8. Does his ego bruise easily, or is he hyper-vigilant to the slightest insult?
Do you have to be careful how you word things or voice grievances?
9. Does he expect special treatment or feel he is 'entitled' to it?
10. Does he talk about himself more than you feel is normal?
11. Does he avoid eye contact with you, or does he withhold sex or affection?
Has he been unfaithful?
12. Does he seem to lack empathy
or compassion for others, or does he 'fake' it to enhance his 'public
persona'?
13. Do you feel emotionally battered and confused?
14. Have you noticed your confidence
or self-esteem slipping?
15. Is he histrionic? In other
words, in public does he hog the limelight, putting on exaggerated shows
and telling fascinating stories of himself in order to be the center of
attraction? Is he loud or does he act like he is on stage when engaging in
simple conversations with other people?
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 Breaking up with a histrionic narcissist?
Be prepared for the battle of your life! While you are an emotional basket
case, the man with a narcissistic personality disorder is as Cold as Ice!
While you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off his
stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't
possibly have ever imagined...
....and not even acknowledge it to himself!
Why? Because he's off charming the socks off of new women as if your years
together didn't even exist!
"He's
off charming the socks off of new women as if your years together didn't
even exist!"
And to him they didn't! The narcissist
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"Read this woman's books.
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-Iris |
Of course, you will never see
this in the beginning of the relationship with a narcissistic man. Many women
do not see any of these harmful qualities until the relationship gets serious
because both the narcissist and his prey tend to idolize people in the
beginning of relationships.
And
being idolized feels good - so good that we often willingly overlook the
red flags.
“Women
know how to fake orgasm. Men know how to
fake an entire relationship.” ~ Sharon
Stone |
 Whether or not this has happened
to you, it is still a very painful realization when you come to discover
that you meant absolutely nothing to someone you loved very much. The realization
that this man never loved you (don't delude yourself) hurts beyond
compare. It is hard to understand that a histrionic narcissist loves only
himself, and, if anything, considered you more a 'love-rival' than a
'lover'.
Truth
is, you didn't exist to the narcissist.
The man with a narcissistic personality
disorder is so totally and completely self-centered to the point of being
the only person in his life - ever. You simply were a temporary ego-boost.
A narcissist supplier (an enforcer and validator of his self-love). His mirror.
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